Monday, September 1, 2025

Agitation and affirmation

Friday, August 29, 2025

We only have a couple of meetings today. We stop by the project and admire the desk that's been refinished. Who will study here?

W hails a GrabCar at 9:30 since PakG is away, taking his wife to hospital. We pray for her complete recovery.

It takes an hour to cross the city to visit Rocky and Lussy and their family. What a feast they have prepared!

Lussy and her mom love to cook - the rendang (coconut-infused beef) is spectacular. Their homemade cream puffs fill us to the brim.

Lussy has  a vegetable and herb garden on her rooftop. Closer to the ground, this jeruk Bali (a 7" version of grapefruit) has ripened and is sent along, along with 3 pots of herbs.

There are demonstrations around town protesting government corruption and higher taxes. We miss the crowds but friends get caught by tear gas.

At a local university, sellers sit across from the entry, offering flowers for a new crop of graduates.
Back home, I hop on a call with coworkers in Thailand and Japan, who update us on their work. Challenges abound in this restless world. It's good to know Someone is great, beyond human intentions and abilities.

Saturday
There's unrest in the city overnight, with fires and protests. The hills are quiet. During the day, civilians and civil servants clean up the mess and broken dreams left downtown by the mobs. So much property damage and loss lies in the wake of high adrenaline. Small food vendor and bystanders are among the victims of the wanton destruction.

We walk early, with leftovers for lunch - potato salad and ribs with IbuSumi's homemade bread. Grading and monthly updates are waiting but I have no heart for the work. We pray for peace in Indonesia and in the hearts of those around us.
Mysteriously, the tile in the kitchen has split into three pieces. The ruined formica atop the cabinet is hidden under a 60X60cm (24"square) floor tile. This one somehow didn't last.
A young couple comes for marriage counseling and checks out a wedding venue nearby. It's a honor to be part of a young family's beginnings.

Sunday
We love the people we serve with! This is today's volunteer crew. We postpone the board meeting as two members are missing.
It's Round Table Sunday (last Sunday of the month). We discuss a hot topic from 1 Peter 3: submission of a wife to her own husband (not all women subjugated to all men) and the sacrificial love of a husband, even willing to suffer and die for his wife.

"Who has the greater obligation and effort, the husband or wife?" W asks the attendees.

I write the monthly newsletter and wrap up some reading in the afternoon.

Monday
It's a quiet morning after a walk, with one staff updating his insurance and the other volunteering at a neighborhood clinic for preschoolers. With an empty house, there's headspace to organize a cabinet and finish grading papers from a June class (finally). I'm missing two assignments so ask for a resubmission in case those were sent to me and disappeared. After today, grades will be submitted as is.

Zeli's here to look at the little fridge that quit on us. The compressor gets hot but there's still no cooling. We head out for lunch.
The corn with chilis is as good as the fried chicken/shrimp balls.
The owls Wolly and Molly stare us down.
Along the street, the flowers are putting on a show again.
Tuesday
We're out early to walk. Anton rips the 3-part leash from W's hands and charges out of the gate to chase a cat. W catches all 3 dogs; the old ones have not run that fast for a while. When we get back home, Ruth has sent over 40 roses for our 48th anniversary tomorrow.
I make two big bouquets that cheer us as we walk through the living room and entry.
The city has been quieter overnight. It's sunny and warm. Merla brings 3 rooted adeniums over: they'll be beautiful when they bloom, reminding me of jade plants. Our currency is cookies.
Jane sends over 15 boxes of books and furniture they're leaving behind as they repatriate. Books? They'll go in all directions. We've found that few people read here. They know how - it's just not a hobby or regular activity.

Indonesian decor rarely includes a bookshelf. In contrast, British decor has books everywhere and a comfy reading chair! like at our place. That corner feels peaceful.
Read more:
* O Lord of hosts, you are God, you alone, of all the kingdoms of the earth; you have made heaven and earth. Isaiah 37:16

* All things came into being through him, and without him not one thing came into being. John 1:3

Moravian Prayer: Creator of all, inspire us with your divine wisdom. Help us to recognize your presence in every aspect of existence and to live in accordance with your divine will. Amen.

Thursday, August 28, 2025

Bananas, visits, and beautiful trails

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

The bromeliads are at it again!

We walk early while the streets are almost empty. Many people who live on the hill - and those who drive up from the city - "do the loop" at 7 AM. Construction workers gather before the gates open at the Padma Hotel. This premier Bandung hotel is undergoing a complete renovation and a huge crane hangs in the sky above the worksite.

Anton is a pill. He is jumpy, uncooperative, and general puppy-mischievous. W hangs onto the 3 big dogs while I keep walking with little Bailey. I'm late to the first meeting anyway but forgiven.

Today we're trying a new kind of bread, panettone made with the failed "nut bars" of last week. The bars crumbled into granola instead of holding together so we've been putting it atop yogurt for breakfast. Why not try it in bread? It tastes a bit "peanut"-y but otherwise is tasty and soft.

We visit our friend in hospital. Chandra is recovering from his surgery yesterday. Prayer and something sweet (not us, but banana bread?) is in order. It helps that his sister is a doctor: she can interpret the charts and give lucid updates.
On the way home, Veronica and Kiki send up some extra-ripe bananas.
IbuA and IbuS know exactly what to do with those! Mind you, we run out of eggs again, so PakS goes to get another 3 dozen so they can finish baking. When we're done we have 5 fresh loaves. One goes back down the hill to Veronica's. Two more go out the door to others.
Our team meeting in early afternoon shares updates and completes 30 weeks with a devotional: Faith, Friendship, and Focus by our friend Rebekah Vicknair Metteer. It's been a great blessing to us.
At the project walkthrough, we clarify areas to be painted, simplify water needs, and approve electrical outlets.
We admire the work already done and hand over a banana bread. IbuA and IbuS's baking is greatly appreciated by the crew! and by the time we turn around, the box is empty.
We walk home, admiring a clump of flowers beside the street. The lilies bloom 3-4X a year, glowing as night falls.
As a series, they are spectacular.
Wednesday
I'm up during the night, my mind churning with the project checklist that's been growing in the past few days. I write it down. My DuoLingo language assignments is accomplished for the day, too.

At 6 AM, my favorite monthly meeting starts. This Mastermind, a co-mentoring group led by coach Kim Martinez, has been life-giving to me for years. Today we welcome a new member, a high-capacity young leader living in Jakarta.

I'm happily surprised to get Mom on a call, though it's later than usual for her. She prays for peace, thanks God for his faithfulness, and asks for blessings over the family and those we encounter.

W and I have our date breakfast, this time at #WarungEthnic. I am craving rice with oncom, fermented something-something that has a very peculiar taste. We sort plans and schedules. A hectic month lies ahead.

Afterward, W and I sit on the Porch for the Sunday read-through. This one's a doozy: wives submitting to their husbands and husbands being prepared to die for their wives. (Which one do you think is harder?!) It's going to be a Round Table Sunday, which means noisy discussions around the tables.
We track the sun at the project to check where plants will thrive. I take pictures at various hours.
The women's group is a joy.
The meeting I hurry home for is delayed and then cancelled.

Thursday
We're on the way to Lembang by 7:30 AM for a hike through the forest up to the Dutch Fort. 
Every tall pine is being tapped for sap. Many trees have toppled, weakened by repeated scarring.
Some parts are steep or rutted by motorcycles.
It's rained so the air is clean and we can see across the valleys.
There are entry gates to the forts.
It's hard to imagine those young men killing each other and being killed because of the ambition and aspirations of others.
There's a memorial to the fallen soldiers above the forts.
I look down the deep air shaft above the center fort.
Some campers have left a heap of empty coconut hulls.
We have more dogs (5) today than people (4.)
Lunch at Balibu is good. I pick the salted /fermented fish off my rice before I eat though. The dogs will go crazy for those later.
The oncom is not as good as #Ethnic's.
The restaurant's handmade bamboo chairs are a work of art.
On the way home, we visit Daesy in the hospital.
We drop Veronica at her place, have a quick shower, and head back down the hill to visit Chandra and Titik at Boromeus. The kids are headed home from school on the angkot, little van-buses.
Some boys hang onto the open door and then jump off when they reach their stop.
After our dirty dogs are brushed out and fed, we relax into the evening. W and I watch My Dog Skip, looking for a film for the next movie night. Most people in Bandung are afraid of dogs so we don't show many dog movies.

Read more:

* [A poem about the value of scripture:]

Your word, Lord, is eternal;

    it stands firm in the heavens.

Your commands are always with me

    and make me wiser than my enemies.Your faithfulness continues through all generations;

    you established the earth, and it endures.

Your laws endure to this day,

    for all things serve you.

If your law had not been my delight,

    I would have perished in my affliction.

I will never forget your precepts,

    for by them you have preserved my life.

Save me, for I am yours;

    I have sought out your precepts.

The wicked are waiting to destroy me,

    but I will ponder your statutes.

To all perfection I see a limit,

    but your commands are boundless.

Oh, how I love your law!

    I meditate on it all day long.

Your commands are always with me

    and make me wiser than my enemies. Psalm 119:89-98


*If you obey the Lord your God: Blessed shall you be in the city, and blessed shall you be in the field.” Deuteronomy 28:2-3

*You ask and do not receive because you ask wrongly, in order to spend what you get on your pleasures. James 4:3

Moravian Prayer: Gracious God, teach us to pray aright. Grant us humility, sincerity, and faith as we come before you. May our prayers align with your will and bring glory to your name. Amen.

Monday, August 25, 2025

Wonderful weekend

Friday, August 22, 2025

After our walk, we have a date breakfast at #NaraPark. I order my usual oolong tea, chatting online with Mom while waiting for W to drop the dogs at home. He and I reconcile our weekend calendars  as we eat, then head home to work.

My first appointment is canceled: her child is ill. After the fading flowers are pulled from last week's arrangement, the feathery dill still looks green. I clean the sprigs and put them in fresh water. Let's see if they root. The bamboo stems left by Clau 2 months ago are finally putting out shoots.

I pull up the book manuscript. With so much data, finding patterns is a priority. Specifics will come later. As people share personal stories and their advice, I plug them into the outline.

Sigh. The outline felt so orderly before stories start to overlap from one section into the next. The rough draft is usually an initial blurt that needs to be organized. Then comes cleaning up information and writing for clarity.

The book club celebrates Anu's 50th with lunch at #CafeBrunswick. The company is wonderful, including Anu's daughter who is an Oxford undergrad majoring in Fine Arts. What fun to see the hopeful future ahead of her.
The book selections are always interesting and often international. This is the next one.
Birthday blessings come with cookies, of course.
It's back to books at home, too.

W is the king of online orders. Today four glass light shades arrive to replace the missing ones from an inherited ceiling fan. My job is specifying "get something like this" and texting him a link. He does the rest.

Saturday
It feels good to walk first thing. Dogs want to go inside the gate with us? they have to sit first. All four plunk their hind ends on the street.
IbuSiti is back for a bi-weekly unknotting of my muscles. We're updating websites, reading and writing, and making calls. Afterward, A and E arrive for their initial marriage counseling session. It's a joy to be part of new things.

W brings back a burrito (a good one!) from the student food court down the hill. Dr Tom arrives mid-afternoon to stay with us overnight. He's at dinner with a friend. We're happy to stay home with a supper of leftovers.
Sunday
W leaves at the usual time but Tom and I walk to the hall before the Gathering, where he gives a touching account of his journey of faith.

Today seems to be blue day. We line up for a photo.
Lunch at Maxi's is time for conversation and updates.
Monday
Another week rolls out with a walk and meetings. Tom joins us for breakfast at #NaraPark and after he leaves there are more meetings. A friend takes home some banana bread after we have tea together. 

Other friends send over a bed frame they purchased in an antique shop over 25 years ago. Since they're repatriating in 2 weeks, they are shedding life here.
Some days are full of tech. Others are full of people, food, and tech. That's today, a connected Monday indeed.

The tablecloths from the potluck last week are ironed and ready for the next event. They'll go back to the hall tomorrow.
Titik combined colors and textures beautifully in the Sunday floral arrangement. 
I take a closer look at here bouquet.
Look at the twisted end of a vine.
Together, it's an amazing combination. What a specialty florist - though Titik insists flowers are her hobby. We missed her while she did a 4-month trip across Asia and Europe and are happy she's back, creating beauty.
W and I relax after an early afternoon of work. I start to cull bathroom and kitchen items. We check progress on the project and then watch My Fat Big Greek Wedding 2. It's a warm-hearted spoof on family ties and traditions.

Read more:
*The Lord said, “I do forgive, just as you have asked.” Numbers 14:20

*[Jesus told his disciples,] This, then, is how you should pray:

"Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one."


For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:9-15


*[Jesus said,] Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. Mark 11:25


*On the last and greatest day of the festival, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, “Let 

anyone who is thirsty come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.” John 7:37-38


*Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

Moravian Prayer: Heavenly Father, shower us with your boundless grace and forgiveness. May we humbly accept your mercy, letting it cleanse and renew our souls. May the act of your forgiveness remind us to forgive others, too. Amen.